請柬也稱請?zhí)�，有正式和非正式兩種。非正式請柬就是常說的邀請信或邀請條，多用于親戚朋友之間。正式請柬需要一定的格式書寫，主要用于婚禮、喪禮、宴會、舞會、招待會、展覽會等隆重開閉幕式、大型晚會、慶祝大會及其他正式社交場合。請柬包括稱呼語、正文和結(jié)束語三大部分。正式請柬一般用第三人稱。在英美國家，邀請者如同在，應把兩人的名字都列出。

　　1.邀請便條：

　�、侔l(fā)出邀請A——“你能來參加我的Party嗎”

　　April 20, 2010

　　Dear Fiona,

　　I am going to hold a dinner party with several other friends of ours. The party will be held in Room 6 of Lijing Hotel at 5:00 p.m. today, I sincerely hope you can attend and we will have a very happy time together. Please let me know whether you can make it.

　　Yours,

　　Amelia

　　點評：本類邀請函的要點是體現(xiàn)自己作為舉辦方的誠意，即高亮部分。

　　主要思路為：簡述自己要舉辦的活動內(nèi)容——活動的時間地點——表達自己的誠意——期望對方予以答復。

　　發(fā)出邀請B——“你愿意和我去參加XX活動嗎”

　　April 20, 2010

　　Dear Fiona,

　　Here is a piece of good news for you. The * will give a performance in the * tomorrow evening. I am sure that you will be happy to watch it .The performance will begin at seven o’clock sharp. I will wait for you at the theater entrance. Please let me know whether you can make it at your earliest convenience.

　　Yours,

　　Amelia

　　點評：本類邀請函的要點是表明“相信你一定會對這個活動感興趣”或者“我希望你能夠一同參加”的心情。同時注意敘述清楚活動的內(nèi)容、時間、地點及對方能夠給出最后答復的時間。

　　發(fā)出邀請C——寫給長輩，“我能和您約在XX見面嗎”

　　April 20, 2010

　　Dear Professor Zhou,

　　I am Amelia from class 052; I need you to give me some suggestion on my project. If it doesn’t trouble you too much, shall we have a meet at your office tomorrow? Time is up to you.

　　Respectful yours,

　　Amelia

　　點評：本類邀請函是由于對象是師長，不得不采用正式的格式和對方實現(xiàn)約見。因此注意使用敬語和“時間地點由你定”的表達。

　　主要思路是：敘述清楚自己要求見面的原因——自己方便的時間段——希望對方能抽空相見的迫切心情——表達感謝之情。

　　發(fā)出邀請D——以群體為對象，通知式的邀請函

　　April 20, 2010

　　Dear girls and boys in Class 0403,

　　This Saturday evening, from 7 p.m. to 9 p. m., at Singeing dining hall, there will be a ball held by Class 0301. We warmly invite you to take part in it. There you can enjoy yourselves with dance, music and various games. And we’ll have a chance of communication, which will enhance the friendship between us. Come and enjoy ourselves together.

　　Yours,

　　Mike

　　Monitor of Class 0301

　　點評：本邀請函的對象為群體，因此有點類似通知的格式。與其他邀請函不同的是，這里可以使用號召式的結(jié)尾。

　�、诮邮苎�請

　　April 20, 2010

　　Dear Amelia,

　　It’s so kind of you to invite me to the dinner party, I would like to come. I will go to the place right after I finish my work at about 5 p.m. this evening. (如果宴會是辦在家里的話：I shall be very happy to call at your house right after I finish my work at 6:30 this evening.) Thank you again for your wonderful hospitality and I am looking forward to seeing you soon.

　　Yours,

　　Fiona

　　點評：由于對方使用了正式的邀請格式，因此回復時也理應采用正式的確認信函格式。

　　主要思路是：感謝對方的邀請——明確告知對方自己愿意參加——明確通知對方自己能夠到達的時間(或者確認見面地點)——再次感謝對方的邀請

　�、劬芙^邀請

　　April 20, 2010

　　Dear Amelia，

　　It’s so kind of you to invite me to the dinner party, I would like to go but there is a meeting I have to attend the same evening, please give my best regards to them all and I hope my absence will not cause you any serious inconvenience, have fun.

　　Yours,

　　Amelia

　　點評：拒絕時注意語言的委婉。

　　本類的主要思路是：感謝對方的邀請——自己由于什么原因不能出席——表示遺憾——祝�；顒尤〉贸晒�(或者對方和別的同伴玩得開心;或者嘗試改約其他時間)等。